Blogging with the Bradleys


What Is Life?

Life is what we are born into.  When our parents united in an intimate manner, you and I were conceived.  However, somewhere between conception and normally nine months, we entered this world and were given the gift of “life.”  We were given the chance to exist, to be, to learn, and to grow.  Living “life” is full of uncertainties and although there is nothing new that has not already happened before, each of us can learn from one another through our experiences and help one another on this journey.

 Our Purpose

It is our purpose to post weekly blogs that will provide narratives to our readers that will conclude with valuable insight regarding various occurrences concerning life.  It is desirous that we connect people from all walks of life to provide encouragement, unification, and realization.

What Matters the Most

The best thing we can offer one another is our love. With all that is going on in the world, there is a great need for love and no room for discord, confusion, or hatred.  Love consists of action and requires more than lip service.  In essence, love is the beginning of a better world, a better you, and a better us and is what ultimately matters the most.  
By Tenisha Bradley May 18, 2021
What ever happened to being ingratiating and obliging? It seems as though kindness and courtesy have left the building and is nowhere to be found anymore. The words, "please" and "thank you" are hardly ever used or heard. Acts of kindness and courtesy towards one another can and will create an atmosphere of peace where people can live among and with each other harmoniously, which is what we need in this world today. People are fighting over meaningless matters that have no real significance that cannot compare to peace. It appears that everyone is always upset, angry, and violent. No one wants to transpire amicable solutions by reasoning and talking with and to each other. People are not friendly, too honore to speak, too jealous to be happy for others, and too stubborn to help someone less fortunate. There's lying, cheating, slander, road rage, domestic violence, senseless shootings, rebellious children, no respect for authority, audacious racism, childish acts of disliking someone, bullying, and accelerated hatred for life. But, what does it really cost any of us to be peaceful? What will we lose if we make an effort to generate peace? Absolutely nothing!!! Now, that's not to say that everyone will accept the peace you offer, but even if a person does not, take your peace and keep moving. Do not be discouraged to continue to be peaceful. So what can you do? You can make every effort to produce and preserve peace. However, let me be clear that in order for you to do that, we must first have peace within ourselves because what is on the inside of us will show up on the outside for others to see. Then, the peace we have can and will spread abroad because in the end, what is relevant is how we lived our lives treating one another in this world and lifetime. ( Luke 6:31) LifeTipz: With all that is going on in the world today, there is absolutely no room for confusion, drama, and chaos. Circulate peace wherever your feet may tread and if possible, with whoever you come in contact with. Make peace with those you have wronged and mistreated for no reason. Life is too short. #BloggingwiththeBradleys
By Tenisha Bradley May 9, 2021
A mother is a female who can be biologically connected (grandmother, aunt, sister, etc.) and/or have no blood connection at all to you (stepmother, foster mother, adoptive mother, etc.) She has played a significant part in your upbringing as well as providing for you. However, no matter what language you speak, Mother is a meaningful and special word to be used with all gratefulness and appreciation. This is a word that is full of unconditional love, forgiveness, wisdom, and strength. M is for the way she does the "most" for her children. O is for how she goes "over" and beyond for the minors in her care. T is for the "time" she invests in her offspring. H is for the "hopeful" spirit she maintains in raising her youngsters. E is for the "everlasting" love she gives her youth. R is for the way she "rears" her babies with good morals and values. Show your mother love while she is here on this Earth, so that when she is gone you can love the memories she left behind.
By Tenisha Bradley April 23, 2021
Not Mature Not Res ponsible Do Not Want to be Accountable Unexpected Illness/Death Bound by the Penal System Entrapped by Substance/Alcohol Abuse/Addiction Parental Denial These are just a few reasons that either by force or by choice, being single is no antic. It is a situation that cannot and should not be taken frivolously. Simply, because there are other lives that depend on you for shelter, for food, for clothes, safety, love, and basic needs.................HECK for everything!! Why? Because you are that child's/children's parent, all they see and know. Not only that, but children are so deserving of all of that and more because they did not ask to be here, but by the grace of God, have made their arrival in this world and are dependent on you and your parental guidance. Let me say that this assignment you have been given is not an easy or without complications. It is full of the unexpected of how to govern plights as they may and certainly will occur. It is full of fear that plagues your intentions of failing or letting your child/children down. It consists of sleepless nights when you are wondering if your income will be provide their needs. It consists of finding someone trustworthy to care for your child/children while you work. It consists of not engaging with your child/children enough on a quality level because sometimes you have to work more than one job to make ends meet. It consists of late nights helping them with homework assignments and projects. It consists of going to parent-teacher conferences. It consists of making it to their afterschool activity to support them by cheering them on. It consists of making sure they have enough, even if you are in need. It consists of making sure they eat, even if you have to miss a meal. It consists of serious talks and stern discipline, no matter how much it may hurt your heart to do so. It consists of taking them to annual doctor's visits and to the ER when medical emergencies arise. A s things are, believe me, as I can certainly attest to the fact that people are and will be placed in your parentage pathway who truly love and care for you and your child/children, understand your struggle, and are willing to help you whenever and in whatever capacity they can. Your effort and perseverance to be the best parent you can be is not disregarding and with much respect. LifeTipz: Encouragement for single mothers and fathers - Because you are a lone "one" does not mean you are alone "only." Do not be afraid or too proud to ask for assistance. Trust and believe that there are genuine people who are inclined to help you get through one of the most important and challenging chapters of your life you will ever have to endure. Listen to your elders and other single parents, they can and will give you essential and valuable information to educate you that you will not get from reading a book or magazine. #BloggingwiththeBradleys
By Tenisha Bradley April 13, 2021
My period is late.............. I can't believe he said it's not his baby ........... How will I ever tell my parents?.............. What will people think of me?........... Will I be able to finish school?........... What am I going to do?................. These are just a few of the questions that invade the mind of every teenage girl who has experienced teenage pregnancy. Did she know that this could possibly occur? Of course, but most teenagers think, "it won't happen to me since this is my first time." However, it is a well known fact that teenage pregnancy has occurred since the beginning of time. Parents have expressed shame and disgust dealing with the fact that their child is with child. Many parents tend to feel as though they have done something wrong or even failed as a parent. When parents feel this way, they can be harsh, cold-hearted, and unsympathetic towards the teenager. Now, don't get me wrong as it is not my objective to implicate that we should applaud or felicitate the teenager at a time such as this, however, the truth of the matter is that this occurrence causes feelings to develop in an unruly and ungovernable disposition in the teen and parents. Parents let me notify you that your teenager really need you to listen to them, talk to them, and be actively engaged in their life during this time, as it is stressful and exasperating for everyone. Teenagers are in no way mature enough to be parents on so many different levels which include the following: Emotionally - The teenager will not only experience hormonal changes, but also times of irritation, resentment, and acrimony. Mentally - The teenager's mind is still developing and learning how to adapt to semi-independence and growing up. There are stresses associated with pregnancy that may cause depression and/or post traumatic stress disorder of taking care of another life. Financially - There are so many expenses that come with preparing for and raising a newborn baby that will exceed the teenagers mentality, imagination, and means to provide. Socially - Teenage pregnancy can lead to periods of loneliness as there may be a loss of friends and even family members who are not in conformity with the fact a teenager is having a baby. So, it is a request that we as adults must TEACH and/or EDUCATE our young girls. As their bodies are undergoing transformation from teenage to adult, they must be provided with valuable information that they will learn from and share with their friends. First, we must teach them that it is OKAY to say NO when abstaining from having sex. They should know not fall prey to peer pressure or even curiosity. But on the opposite spectrum, if they cannot refrain from engaging in sexual activity, they should be taught about SAFE SEX practices to avoid pregnancy and acquiring sexually transmitted diseases. Now, what about the teenage fathers? Did you think we would forget them? Of course not!! We should provide them with the same teachings and education as provided to the young girls with the exception of: Accountability - There is an urgent need on his part to face responsibility of his actions in this matter. Support - Provide help to the mother and child by participating every step of the way. Influence - Be a young man with integrity and a positive influence for the mother of the child, the child, and other young men. LifeTipz: Life does not end because a teenager becomes pregnant and there is no need for shameful and renouncing tactics. Instead, embrace your teenager, educate them, and help prepare them for parenthood to the best of your knowledge and ability. This does not mean that you take away their parental obligation, but it means that you encourage them to believe that their education can continue, goals can still be accomplished, and success is still in their future, but just may have to be delayed because of a few obstacles. Most of all, provide love and support to them and the new life they will bring into this world. #BloggingwiththeBradleys
By Tenisha Bradley April 4, 2021
From the outside looking in, their marriage appears perfect. It seems that they are just right for each other. Publicly, she is treated like a queen and he is honored as a king. There is no end to their chuckles and smiles. It's all a facade. Behind closed doors though........... "No! Stop!! Help!!! Wait!!!! Please........... Then follows........... "I'm sorry..........It won't happen again.......See what you made me do......I'm going to get help" These are words that you hear when domestic violence takes place among people who are engaged in a personal and intimate relationship. These acts of violence usually occur when one person exercises control over the other with verbal, mental, emotional, and ultimately physical abuse. "Why does the victim constantly apologize?" "Does the abuser feel better about himself?" "How many times will the abuser say they are sorry?" "Will it ever end?" These are questions that plague the minds of people everywhere whenever domestic violence is present. Each person who has or is being abused may have a different answer to those questions. However, no matter what the answers may be, believe it or not, this is not love. True love does not tear down your self-esteem, cause you to feel worthless, bruise your body, break your bones, or even end your life. (I Corinthians 13:4-8) If you have never been a victim of domestic abuse, you may often ask yourself, “Why won’t he/she just leave?” The truth is that it is an easy trap to become entangled in, but also a vicious cycle to escape. Domestic violence affects all of us whether directly or indirectly as we all may know or have known those who have been distressed with this issue. To get help, become knowledgeable, or to help someone you may know who is a victim, click the link below: www.thehotline.org LifeTipz: Relationships can and will have problems and disputes, but they should never be infused with abuse. Every person who is in a situation like this has his/her own breaking point. That is the point in which they decide they need help and/or must leave. This can be after a few weeks, months, and even years. However, we should not demean or degrade the person. Instead, we should encourage them to get help, support them, and not judge. #Blogging with the Bradleys

Our Challenge To You

Just because there are ups and downs in life, does not mean that living is without hope.  Our challenge to you is that when an opportunity presents itself to help someone, that you seize it and give it all you’ve got to help brighten someone’s day, bring a smile to their face, or provide a need.  There are so many ways to complete this challenge and we only simply ask that you do what you can, when you can, and while you can.  


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